In Ìṣẹ̀ṣe L'ágbà, authentic love is the voluntary meeting of two sovereign heads (Orí). The tradition strictly forbids coercive rituals, teaching that real attraction emanates from cultivating one's own inner alignment.
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— Oluwo Falodun Fajemilusi OlokuntoyeA palace of happiness cannot be built upon chains of domination. True love awakens when two Orí recognize each other in divine truth.
1. Harmonic Union of Two Heads
Dáfá reveals whether the life blueprints of both partners complement one another. In genuine marriages, pacification offerings (Ètùtù Èrò) featuring pure honey and cooling botanicals soothe marital friction without violating free will.
Sources: "Yoruba Marriage Customs", Odù Ifá Corpus (Òtúrá Méjì), Akurẹ́ Lineage Archives.